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A Man Emailed His Wife A Spreadsheet That Logged All The The Times She'd Said No To Sex

birdsy-purplefishes:

coeur-de-porcelaine:

maccahawk:

This is it. This is pretty much the pentacle of male privilege in the U.S. When a husband whole heartedly believes that he is a victim to unfair treatment by his wife because she denied him sex 26 times in a month.  

When a man think his pleasures is more important than a women NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX and since they are married he has every right to her body and by denying him access to her body she is denying him said right. 

He thinks her “excuses” for having sex are also unreasonable. And what are some of those “excuses”?

-She was too tired to have sex.

-She was sick.

-She was too drunk.

-She felt tender (in vaginal region) after having sex the other day.

-They didn’t have enough time because they had somewhere to be. (Which means he was fully prepared to have enough time to get himself off INSIDE his wife while knowing they wouldn’t have enough time for her pleasure)

These are all unreasonable “excuses”

 I saw the Reddit thread, and most people were siding with him because she was committing the unacceptable crime of not having sex with him, and even among those who were more sympathetic were starting with ”he did it in an immature way…BUT” and it’s just so depressing how much people hate women that are not ”fulfilling their purpose” of being fucked by men. 

The comments on the Buzzfeed link are full of women defending the guy.

It makes me so fucking sick.

MEN ARE SHIT, AND WOMEN LIVE IN TERROR OF MALE VIOLENCE IF WE DO NOT APPEASE THEM.

Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

When girls go out wearing tiny, tight, skimpy outfits, I mean they have the choice to wear something else. some thing less provocative, so really girls are asking for it.

scalelectricity:

If you’re out in public and I see you’re not wearing any protective headgear does that give me the right to smash in your skull with a hammer? I mean you asked for it, since you’re not wearing something to protect your head. 

Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

Yes I have talked to him and he refuses to do anything about it, yet he knows he's guilty and he admits his guilt.

nextyearsgirl:

Men use guilt as a manipulation tactic to show remorse without actually changing harmful behavior. You should read Why Does He Do That?, it was really helpful for me to gain insight into men’s behavior. Tell him guilt doesn’t mean anything if he doesn’t make an effort to change, and if he doesn’t stop his harmful behavior, you will either find a way to move out or he will never see you again when your lease is up.

radicalblossoming:

stfutransactivistbullies:

shamelesslyunladylike:

delicately-interconnected:

super1eklectic:

llvnos:

This. All of this.

MUTHAFUCKIN THANK YOU!

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